Homosexuality: 30 Days of Intercession

30-day intercessory prayer guide designed to help Christians pray biblically, hopefully, and specifically for a loved one who is struggling with or practicing homosexuality.

Purpose of the Resource

• Presents a biblical worldview of homosexuality and same-sex attraction, answering core questions like “Did God create my loved one homosexual?” and “What is their true identity before and after being born again?”.
• Aims to equip believers to intercede for both unbelieving loved ones living in sin and professing believers wrestling with same-sex attraction, emphasizing that God alone judges salvation while believers assess fruit.
• Frames the struggle primarily as a spiritual battle for the person’s spirit and soul (mind, will, emotions), not merely a behavior issue.

Structure & Flow

• Begins with theological foundations:
  • God’s goodness and the absence of evil in Him.
  • Human fallenness in Adam and the distinction between pre-conversion identity (“child of the devil,” defined by sin) and post-conversion identity (“child of God,” defined by Christ).
  • Explanations of body, soul, and spirit, and how sanctification progressively transforms the inner person.
• Addresses questions about labels, willful disobedience, and assurance—warning that ongoing, willful sin may indicate a lack of genuine new birth, while also emphasizing God’s call to repentance and restoration.
• Then moves into 30 daily “Intercession” pages, each with:
  • A “Prayer Perspective” to shape how the intercessor thinks.
  • A specific prayer for an unbelieving loved one.
  • A specific prayer for a believing loved one.
  • Several “Truth” statements supported by Scripture.

Key Daily Themes

Across the 30 days, the guide leads the intercessor to pray through themes such as:

Proclaiming a biblical worldview and affirming that God did not create anyone homosexual, while acknowledging a fallen world and sinful nature.

• Sexual purity and God’s design for heterosexual marriage; hope that God may provide a future spouse of the opposite sex.
• God’s active pursuit, sanctifying work, and implantation of His Word in the loved one’s heart and conscience.
• Transformation of desires, thoughts, emotions, and sexual behavior through the Holy Spirit’s renewing work.
• Breaking bondage to pornography and self-gratification, and seeking eternal reward over temporary pleasure.
• Healing from underlying wounds such as bullying or childhood molestation, entrusting injustice to a just and vengeful God.
• Addressing cultural affirmation of homosexuality, “false praise,” and the oppressor/oppressed narrative while reasserting individual responsibility before God.
• Receiving God’s protection, belonging in His family, and deep assurance of His presence and care.
• Embracing God’s forgiveness—sins removed, blotted out, trampled underfoot, and cast into the depths of the sea
• Living unashamed and set free in Christ, with identity and purpose grounded in being a new creation and God’s masterpiece.