What do I call you?

What Do I Call You?

Standing Faithfully as Christians in Today’s Pronoun Debate

Equip Ourselves with Grace and Truth about a Defining Issue for Our Faith and Relationships

As Christians, we find ourselves increasingly pressured by the transgender movement to use language that conflicts with our biblical convictions. “What Do I Call You?”—from FPIW and Pastor P. Brian Noble—brings urgent clarity and guidance for all of us who face requests to use non-biological pronouns for friends, family, or neighbors. This practical resource helps us stand firm in faith, foster respectful and honest conversations, and show the love of Christ in challenging moments.

Why This Resource?

• Grounded in Scripture: We learn how the Bible calls us to stand for truth while showing kindness—affirming God’s creation of male and female, honoring God with our words, and understanding why we cannot lie (Genesis 1:27, Psalm 139, John 3:21).
• Practical Scenarios: We receive step-by-step guidance for situations we actually face—from casual acquaintances to close family—each with Christ-centered action steps that keep our conduct respectful, truthful, and compassionate.
• Conversation Templates: With adaptable scripts and conversation starters rooted in gentleness and honesty, we avoid both compromise and unnecessary conflict when speaking with others.
• Truth and Love Together: “What Do I Call You?” equips us to fulfill the biblical call to both truthfulness and love, providing prayers and reflection prompts to prepare our hearts and guide us in every relationship.

For Whom?

• Families in the Church navigating identity questions with children, grandchildren, or relatives
• Pastors and church leaders seeking to equip members of our congregations
• Christian friends and neighbors wanting to maintain relationships without violating biblical convictions

All of us feeling the tension between cultural pressure and obedience to Christ

About the Author

1. Brian Noble, CEO of Family Policy Institute of Washington, is a trusted pastor, author, and reconciliation leader. With nearly three decades in ministry and national media experience, Brian brings both compassion and clarity to issues at the crossroads of faith and culture.

Take Action—Let’s Stand for Truth, Speak With Love

FPIW and “What Do I Call You?” empower us with wisdom, courage, and practical tools to live out our Christian convictions publicly and privately. Let’s stand together for biblical truth and loving witness in Washington and beyond.

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